jaidabrooks

I am Jaida Nicole, an intelligent, sensual, mature, fun-loving intergendered woman. I am looking for a serious relationship as well as nice friends to hang out with - I find myself on an incredible journey of discovery. I find everyday to be a blessing.

In that I have physical attributes of both males and females it might be helpful to classify myself as intergendered.
OK- let's clarify this - my body looks amazingly female, and very youthful for my age - very convincing, with a female physique - complete with small boobs and completely female hips and long slender sexy legs - but I also possess a penis and no vagina . If that disturbs you - don't bother to read on.

I am a gender outlaw. Both female and male descriptors do not adequately define me. I am genderfluid. I can move seamlessly between genders. I am comfortable with all parts of myself, both female and male. I have no interest in having surgery to modify my body. I have been known to duck in to a Starbucks bathroom and come out of it, convincingly and attractively, as the 'other' gender, in less than 5 minutes!!! No. I never feel like a Dr. Jekyll and Ms Hyde. I love diversity.

As a woman I present myself as feminine although I do have a tomboyish streak to me. I think I have a great sense of humor and admire that attribute greatly in my friends as well. I try not to take myself too seriously. I find intelligence to be incredibly sexy. I love hanging out with men as well as women. I love browsing in bookstores but I could very easily be persuaded to shop for short slinky dresses as well. You can often tell the mood I am in by looking directly at my shoes. When I find a pursuit that I am passionate about, I know practically no limits. I pride myself in being loving, kind and compassionate. I take my friendships very seriously and you will find me extremely loyal and honest. I am hoping that this will lead to a serious love interest and/or strong lasting friendships.

I am sensual, intelligent, and intersexed.
What I’m doing with my life
Following my muse. Everyday I try to unleash my creativity and create something new - whether it is poetry, or music, or fresh dialog for a novel I am writing. If there is one question that I am committed to answer it is "Why was I put on this Earth?"

I am on a personal Journey. It is already rewarding me beyond my wildest expectations. It takes bravery and discipline - both of which I have an adequate supply of.

Oh... and I am also searching for you. Yes, you . Another brave soul who will agree to walk with me thru this mysterious labyrinth.
I’m really good at
I am deeply affectionate by nature. I am really good at hugging. I consider hugging and caressing to be the highest forms of communication. I have been told I can fully express myself through my fingers. I practice a lot. I am also a great listener and a good communicator.
The first things people usually notice about me
My legs. The very first things notice about me are my legs. Women are envious of my legs and men adore them. I have always had them but have only recently begun to appreciate them.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I love to read books and have tons of them. I enjoy well constructed novels and books on science and engineering. I also appreciate the poems of Rumi, the music of Django and the Hot Club of France, the cello suites of Bach, the violin and mandolin works of Vivaldi, and spirited reggae to dance the night away to. My IPod would give Pandora fits.
The six things I could never do without
My cell phone, my computer, my glasses ( I am blind without them), my mascara, my housekeys, and my violin

I spend a lot of time pondering why I was put on this Earth. And If God was drinking - or at least mildly inebriated when She created me. I am intrigued by the question of why I am here and what I need to accomplish. I think the God has a series of increasingly complex tasks for us all and some of them are downright amusing. But they are all do-able and rewarding. And they are, after all, - what we are here for.

I also spend time pondering - integrity, compassion, moral courage, and the interface of science and gender representation.
On a typical Friday night I am
On a typical Friday night I am either playing at a music event or cuddled up in bed reading a favorite book while listening to Bach - and waiting for you to call :)